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It’s really scary to think about being left out of things or worrying about not being able to make friends, especially as you might be moving to a totally different city.
But you're not alone. Most students arrive feeling exactly the same way. The good news? University is one of the easiest places you'll ever have to meet new people.
Everyone is looking for connections, even if they don't show it, and there’s lots of opportunity! Here are some tips to help you on your way…
Get involved
Be sure to get involved in things you enjoy, that way you’re more likely to meet like-minded people who you get on with straight away. Whether you're interested in football, gaming, photography or volunteering, there's probably a society for it.
Joining a society allows you to meet people who already share your interests, which makes starting conversations much easier. Regular meetings also give friendships time to develop naturally rather than relying on one-off encounters.
Don't be afraid to try something completely new. Some of the strongest university friendships are formed through shared experiences and learning together.
Make sure you take full advantage of freshers week and don't miss out on exciting opportunities to meet people. Saying yes to things and stepping out of your comfort zone could really help you make friends more quickly.
Wondering how else you can get involved? Check out our blog here that has some suggestions.
Put yourself out there
Don’t be afraid to just be yourself. You’re not going to get along with everyone and that’s ok, but by just being yourself, you’re more likely to make long lasting friendships and genuine friendships are built on authenticity. Everyone will appreciate you for just being you, and you’ll soon establish where you fit in. You don't need to impress everyone. Focus on finding people who make you feel comfortable, supported, and accepted.
Make sure you hang out in common spaces, you’ll soon get chatting to others around you. Or even make a group chat with people from your course? You can see who wants to go for a coffee between lectures or what everyone’s up to at the weekend.
But don’t get stuck with one group of friends, being close with your flat is great, but make sure you mingle and have lots of friendship groups, that way you’ll be more likely to always have someone to hang out with.
Be brave and approachable
Don’t shy away from making the first move amongst a group. Whether it be your course mates, flat mates, or a new society group you’ve joined.
It might even help to have a few basic questions ready to ask, should you get stuck for things to say. Here’s some ideas:
- What course are you studying?
- Have you joined any societies yet?
- Where are you from?
- Want to grab a coffee after this lecture?
Connect with Your Flatmates
Your flatmates are likely to be some of the first people you meet, so make sure you put lots of effort in getting to know everyone. Try eating together occasionally, suggesting a film night, or inviting everyone to explore campus. Even if they don't become your closest friends, building positive relationships at home can make university life much more enjoyable.
Don't Panic if It Takes Time
One of the biggest myths about university is that everyone finds their best friends during Freshers' Week.
In reality, friendships develop throughout the entire university experience. Some students meet their closest friends in second year, through a part-time job, or during a placement year.
If you haven't found "your people" immediately, it doesn't mean you've failed. Keep showing up, getting involved, and being open to new experiences.